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Don't know IF - HOW - WHEN to date after a separation?

2/25/2020

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You need to understand the power of consistently showing up even when things seem to be not working.
I know pretty well how challenging it is to keep showing up & mentally getting back on track everytime you get rejected when dating.
The truth is: attracting a suitable parnter is not easy at all...
​...it challenges you around your identity, belief system & emotions on a daily basis.
AND it takes massive patience.

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It took me a long time to attract my soulmate.
That meant consistently showing up & not seeing any return on investment.
Which is cool, really.
Because here is the big thing I learned: in Love you have to be 'open to outcome' - you gotta dettach your emotions & worthiness from the outcome of your date.
Everything you do in dating is just feedback to analyze so you can improve.
It has got NOTHING to do with your worthiness as a human being.
Those months taught me to become a " mad scientist" and constantly seek to understand what was working and what wasn't so eventually I could discern what really matters to me.
The reason I'm writing this is because I see you!
Working hard, day in day out, months of scrolling up and down on dating sites, with one or the other date and nothing to really show for it.
I know it feels discouraging.
I know you feel depleted and done.
But you gotta refuse to give up.
Everything that happened to you was to teach you the lessons needed to blow up!
You literally might be 1 step before the breakthrough.
After stepping off the dating rollercoaster and 'taking a break' and engaging a coach - that's when it actually happened.
I managed to uncover my unconscious pattern of attracting 'unavailable or unsuitable' men into my life.
What a revelation !!!
And ever since I could not have been happier.
I won't tell you to dream bigger -- but tell you exactly what you need to DO to make your big dreams HAPPEN.
So that's what I'm here to do for you!
To give you the guidance and direction I WISH I could have found when I was out there dating.
It's my goal to help you achieve success, to date and fall in Love, and it has happened with many clients before.
But on the other hand, the journey is different for everyone.
At different speeds.
And that's what matters here: building a real foundatin for Love within yourself takes time, consistent showing up & extreme levels of patience.
Refuse to give up right before the miracle.
Be in it for the long-term.
Because success is inevitable when you take a step everyday, regardless the results of yesterday! ❤

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