The experience of conscious uncoupling coaching - client's stories...
I recommend Katrin as a coach for everyone going through a separation process or having gone through such a process and wanting to better understand the underlying reasons and dynamics of what happened in that relationship and also to learn how to build more healthy relationships in the future and being ‘in your power’- when things come to light and become conscious, we start to heal. Thanks for all your wisdom and kindness Katrin Dürkoop and for holding the space without judgment. B.C.
"Conscious uncoupling helped me look at the process of divorce with fresh insight. It helped me move beyond the sense that I am a victim and allowed me to recover ownership of my inner self. This was a very empowering journey which opened the door to forgiveness, inner peace and a sense of purpose for the future. Katrin was truly a precious coach, full of compassion and empathy."
After having followed Conscious Uncoupling and Calling in the One, I can say my life has changed for the better.
With Katrin's aid, I have found the tools to implement more autonomy, responsibility and self-care in my life. The challenges haven't gone away, but my way of dealing with them has become more effective.
The way I relate to people is no longer rooted in pain or victimisation. I have evolved into a woman who can take care of her own needs, who is owning her own pains AND joys. Consequently, my relationship with other people has improved a lot. To my friends, I refered to Katrin as a guardian angel. Sensitive, non-judgemental and very, very delicate. I feel grateful for having had this guardian angel on my journey.
Through my most difficult journey of transiting from a broken unhappy marriage to a single person again, I have found the traditional therapy didn’t offer any practical solution or any guidance on the positive way to move forward. I count my lucky stars for finding Katrin and the Conscious Coupling method as the sessions with support book became my tools to understand better why my marriage didn’t work out, what my part was to own and how I can move forward in more peaceful and graceful way. It has kept me from holding on to negative feelings towards my ex and spared both of us and for the whole family the usual toxic environment that goes with divorcing. We are each happier and are in good terms thanks to my work with Katrin. This is the new way to uncouple from the former partner and I really recommend it to anyone who wish to keep their dignity and grace through tumultuous times and move on in happier way. Thank you Katrin and keep guiding people ! B.P. Brussels
Working with Katrin has been instrumental in the way I have been able to turn the experience of my divorce into an opportunity for introspection and growth. The previously tense relationship I had with my ex has evolved into a more positive dynamic thanks to the wider perspective the Conscious Uncoupling process has afforded me. This transformation has been possible due to Katrin’s gentle yet powerful approach, and to her ability to make me feel at ease during a time in my life where I felt shattered and vulnerable. I will always cherish the safe place she created with her presence, her insights and her invaluable guidance. Katrin is a very wise, gifted woman, a treasure and a blessing in my life.
I.C. , Brussels
When I first went to see Katrin about a year ago I was just beginning to come to terms with the sudden and rather traumatising end to a long relationship. I was still feeling extremely hurt and insecure and the break up still overshadowed my everyday life.
During my sessions with Katrin, I was offered the time and space to reflect, to expresss thoughts and feelings that I was too scared to share with anyone else, and to look inside myself for ways in which I could use this experience to make some positive changes for myself.
I felt that Katrin went above and beyond to provide me with what I needed at each step along the way, both in terms of emotional support and guidance but also in helping me take some simple practical actions to improve my overall well being. Looking back now,
I believe Katrin helped me to heal and to reclaim my life in a meaningful way to the point where I now feel like a wiser, stronger, more self-loving and accepting person than before. Emily M. , Amsterdam
The conscious uncoupling program is an extremely powerful tool and Katrin a very powerful coach and teacher in using this tool.
We embarked on a 6 weeks journey of transformation together. It did not only change the way in which I think and feel about my separation, but also more fundamentally, the way in which I think and feel about myself and how I want to show up in life in the future.
I now understand that even though my former partner may have been for 90 % the "bad guy" in the context and story which led to our separation, this is a story which was co-created by me, and we thus both share some responsibility in the entire process.
During the conscious uncoupling process I experienced empathy and compassion for my former partner. I also understood that the less positive things we experience in life (such as a separation) can actually be the driving force, the inner fire, for personal development and change - no mud, no lotus...
I now feel much more conscious and self-confident. I have set the intention of dignity and self-respect, to be in my power, to shine my light through the world, for the best of myself, everyone and in particular my son. Love me for what I am. I now respect my limits more, communicate in a friendly but firm way what my feelings and need are (in all types of contexts: in family life, at work).
I have accepted that I do not need to be perfect for people to love me or appreciate me.
I have already noticed a difference in my interactions with people since these intentions have been set: my relationships with others are already much more "healthy" and sound, I feel that others being to respect me for what I am - since I myself respect me for what and who I am.
Last but not least: I have set the intention to appreciate the father of my child for this wonderful gift he gave me in life, our son, and to always honor and respect him for his fatherhood. We still have a long way to go but communication has already improved between us in comparison with how we interacted before my embarking on this program.
I recommend following the conscious uncoupling program with Katrin to anyone going through a separation process or having lived a separation. I had been separated for 2 years when embarking on the program and it was still very adapted to my context and situation. B.C. , Brussels