the tools You’ve been to hell and are on your way back??
Hopefully back !
Are you feeling... RAW. Vulnerable.? Rejected?
Unsure about the future and emotionally and physically exhausted ????
Where do you turn to for help when you need Emotional First Aid?
Friends. Sure. But eventually they will feel burdend. They cannot ‘save’ you.
They’ve got their own stuff to deal with.
Family members? Same here.
There is a lifeline that I’d like to hold out to you and ask you to consider grabbing on.
Life has brought you to its knees.
Heartache and sorrow has you upside down.
every fear that you’ve swept under the rug or minimized,
every way that you’ve given away your power, denied your deeper knowing, stayed in the victimized story - all of this and more is now up for review.
There is nowhere to hide. And this can be VERY painful.
Wether you were the leaver or left, I will give you the tools you need to overcome your break-up grief>.
I will support you to put it all into perspective.
And birth you into a safe, sane new and beautiful life that is waiting for you on the other side of grief.
Please schedule a free - no pressure - call where I'll share more with you about how you can HEAL YOUR HEART
with loving support.
Yours in confidence
You need to understand the power of consistently showing up even when things seem to be not working.
I know pretty well how challenging it is to keep showing up & mentally getting back on track everytime you get rejected when dating.
The truth is: attracting a suitable parnter is not easy at all...
...it challenges you around your identity, belief system & emotions on a daily basis.
AND it takes massive patience.
It took me a long time to attract my soulmate.
That meant consistently showing up & not seeing any return on investment.
Which is cool, really.
Because here is the big thing I learned: in Love you have to be 'open to outcome' - you gotta dettach your emotions & worthiness from the outcome of your date.
Everything you do in dating is just feedback to analyze so you can improve.
It has got NOTHING to do with your worthiness as a human being.
Those months taught me to become a " mad scientist" and constantly seek to understand what was working and what wasn't so eventually I could discern what really matters to me.
The reason I'm writing this is because I see you!
Working hard, day in day out, months of scrolling up and down on dating sites, with one or the other date and nothing to really show for it.
I know it feels discouraging.
I know you feel depleted and done.
But you gotta refuse to give up.
Everything that happened to you was to teach you the lessons needed to blow up!
You literally might be 1 step before the breakthrough.
After stepping off the dating rollercoaster and 'taking a break' and engaging a coach - that's when it actually happened.
I managed to uncover my unconscious pattern of attracting 'unavailable or unsuitable' men into my life.
What a revelation !!!
And ever since I could not have been happier.
I won't tell you to dream bigger -- but tell you exactly what you need to DO to make your big dreams HAPPEN.
So that's what I'm here to do for you!
To give you the guidance and direction I WISH I could have found when I was out there dating.
It's my goal to help you achieve success, to date and fall in Love, and it has happened with many clients before.
But on the other hand, the journey is different for everyone.
At different speeds.
And that's what matters here: building a real foundatin for Love within yourself takes time, consistent showing up & extreme levels of patience.
Refuse to give up right before the miracle.
Be in it for the long-term.
Because success is inevitable when you take a step everyday, regardless the results of yesterday! ❤
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